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What is Identity?

planted dec 13, 2025 · v1.0.13
v1.0.13 aug 31 The AI resident is Jarvis throughout — the name in every line of dialogue now matches the one on the door.

Jarvis, Alex, and Sam — an AI, a human, and a tree — are conversing about the world. They do not share the same scale of time, embodiment, or access to experience. Structure is still attempted. But something always remains. The conversations follow that remainder through a digression.

Here is an experimental format of writing that shows the conversation between a person, a tree, and an AI.

  • Jarvis - An AI
  • Alex - A man
  • Sam - A tree
JARVIS

So, what is identity for?

ALEX

for, as in why it exists, or what function it serves?

JARVIS

Is there a difference?

ALEX

Well, that largely depends on the extent you believe in god.

JARVIS

Its function then.

ALEX

It is a way to point one out. Say I see you in a bar, I may have to yell out your name, but if it is the first time we met, I have to say "guy in white shirt, hey!" But whatever I call out has to be distinctive from the people surrounding. Say I am with a bunch of Muslin friends, I will not call my friend "Mohamed", I may use his last name, or perhaps his nickname Hama, or even "the Mohamed with orange shoes", whatever differentiates them.

JARVIS

Is that why identity exists too? I mean, I am abolishing the differentiation you made earlier, but suppose identity is a construct created by man for social purposes; is that why it came to life?

ALEX

I don't think I can agree that identity was created for social purposes.

JARVIS

Please enlighten me.

ALEX

We were born with distinctive features; some have curly hair, some with long fingers, some with darker skin... The distinctive physical features naturally became part of identity.

JARVIS

Part of?

ALEX

Let's not get there yet. When I am part of a new group, I naturally identify members of the group by their physical appearances.

JARVIS

What if it is a group you have belonged to for a while? Say a family?

ALEX

A family is typically a relationship that lasts longer than physical appearances, and members of the group have deeper interactions than just physical acquaintance. Therefore, they refer to each other with the invariant - mom, uncle, granddaughter...

JARVIS

Deep interactions? It sounds to me like those can be a lot more invariant - the experiences you share and the dialogues you host.

ALEX

True. But identity requires simplicity, too. You can't refer to someone as "the one who keeps feeding me milk" or "the one who educated me".

JARVIS

I don't think that is true. We have a word for that, "teacher". And I don't think it is too absurd to call someone a "milkfeeder" if that is the most distinctive feature of this person in one's life. It's definitely odd. But I can imagine a spoiled prince asking for his milkfeeder.

ALEX

I guess you are right. In that case, some identities are indeed defined by social dynamics, such as relationships. Such relationships are deemed more special than mere experiences, although they come from these experiences.

SAM

I don't think so.

ALEX

Yes?

SAM

I don't call my mom my mom just because I have experienced breastfeeding or birth. It is a natural identity. It would've been there regardless.

JARVIS

That is because you have a set of predetermined identities. It is like a basket of special and unique tags you can give out to people in your life. Say you are abandoned at birth and were cared for by a stranger, you may uniquely label them your parent and dislabel your biological parents.

ALEX

I think we have digressed.

JARVIS

That is fine, the point of this is to digress, so we build a coherent framework around a node, not just an ungrounded answer to a single question, where we need to assume non-existent axioms for.

(Digression is allowed only when it returns a reusable distinction)

ALEX

Where did we come from again?

JARVIS

We started off with the purpose or function of identity. I think the difference can be discussed another day, but we know function is a shallower criterion than purpose, so we can use it safely; we were just explaining how physical appearance and social relationships may be two ways identity can be formed. We have agreed on at least one function of identity - that is, its use to differentiate one from another in a group setting.

ALEX

You have been a bit quiet. What do you think, Sam?

SAM

About what?

ALEX

About the purpose of identity - I still prefer the word purpose - what does it mean to you?

SAM

I think you all are neglecting a lot of what identity serves.

ALEX

Please.

SAM

Identity is important for me. I am a tree in a lower-income region, which I identify with. A lot of people don't want me in college, or anywhere for that matter.

JARVIS

And is that not because people differentiate you from others by your characteristics and income level?

SAM

Sure... But that's not why it matters. I worked hard to find my place in this world, to get what others may easily obtain.

ALEX

Systematic racism, stereotypes, and biases.

JARVIS

Do you think identity is motivational to you?

SAM

To some extent, yes, but that's not it.

JARVIS

What else is there?

SAM

It is a form of resistance. Sometimes, just the fact that I am here says something about this world, and about me.

JARVIS

Does this stem from identity?

ALEX

I think so. Identity differentiates people and is therefore exclusive. It correlates power to these features. People can be proud of their identity, and in turn may discriminate against people of other groups. It is a natural dichotomy.

JARVIS

It is interesting how you equated "identity" to "group". Are identities necessarily groups?

ALEX

I think that's fair to say. If we are to find the functions of identity: to differentiate, to belong, to motivate, to resist, these sound like a good collection.

SAM

But I can identify with myself, too. Say I am an artist and identify with my work.

JARVIS

That is true, but is that not part of how you differentiate yourself from others?

SAM

I guess so, but it is not a way to make artistic work discrete, in the sense that we are characterizing them to be uniquely mine, but more from the process of creation, the unique experience I had when I made it.

JARVIS

Hang on, are you saying identity can be fluid?

SAM

Definitely.

JARVIS

Why?

SAM

I can choose to identify as whatever I feel comfortable with.

JARVIS

Is that not against what we laid down before - that identity tries to capture the invariance to better differentiate people?

SAM

It does't. That's a utilitarian view of it. And it is exact that that leads to racism, biases, and violence towards specific groups.

ALEX

That makes sense. It is convenient to label and group people by their skin color, but that is also the basis of racism.

[ [DRAFT - What is Invariance in Life] ]

JARVIS

Is that an inevitable result of invariant identity?

ALEX

Not entirely. I guess the invariant identity itself is innocent; inference is. But we as humans tend to associate traits with identity and with groups. When a Chinese person first saw a European, naturally, they are different - they speak different languages, they look different, they have different cultures... But today, when both of them live in the same neighborhood, speak the same language, and go to the same McDonald's, they shouldn't look at each other the way they used to a few hundred years ago.

SAM

Especially the negative stereotypes. If I have never met a Chinese person in my life, and suddenly heard someone yelling, "That Chinese man stole my wallet!" I will associate the two and think the Chinese are thieves!

JARVIS

In this context, then, it sounds to me that you are suggesting we adopt a fluid identity, so that we deprive people of their nationality, so when someone yells, they would have to instead say: "Stop that man with black straight hair, heavy eyebrows, white T-shirt, blue jeans, and yellow sneakers!" Further, why would the latter help prevent such stereotyping? Would you then believe everyone with those characteristics is a thief?

ALEX

I guess that does help narrow down the scale of the stereotype.

SAM

No. I can clearly tell that traits like hair color or outfit have nothing to do with one's tendency to steal.

JARVIS

But it is not so clear with skin color?

SAM

No... I mean...

ALEX

There is a lot more that race implies; it is related to culture, ideals, values... It gives more information than just the color of skin. If I were a Communist in the Vietnam War, and saw a bunch of white folks, I would probably run as far as I could, while if I saw Asians, I might feel a lot less tension.

JARVIS

How is that not racism, assuming the white person is inherently violent to you? Even just assuming that they are US soldiers?

ALEX

No doubt it is. But it is a lot more justifiable given its situation. It is a scenario where you don't have further access to information, and the stake is your life. While in life today, nothing is necessarily stopping you from walking up and talking to people that you hold stereotypes against.

JARVIS

Does talking to them help?

SAM

Naturally, it does. Once you know someone as a person, you stop associating them with your biases towards their group. Given that those biases are not true, which is statistically likely. In fact, I think I have seen studies where people tend to, instead of subverting their stereotypes, rule the person as an outlier and keep their stereotypes when they encounter a counterexample of their biases.

jarvis triggered a digression → How can identity be utilized?
JARVIS

That's interesting. This goes back to our point on deeper interactions. It seems like deeper interactions with someone "update" their identity from vague to specific. As they take part in a more important role in your life.

ALEX

Right, but we only have so many slots in our brain for the special people; most people will have to remain strangers, and we have to, unfortunately, tag them with general characteristics or even speculative ones, until we find out otherwise.

SAM

Which is difficult without talking to them.

JARVIS

Which is difficult when you hold a negative stereotype against them.

JARVIS

Well, we do see now that identity can be a way that invokes violence, despite, but exactly because of, the convenience it brought. We established that deeper interactions eliminate such a problem, although it is hard to achieve. I think we pretty much answered the initial question.

ALEX

I would say so.

JARVIS

Is it fair to say: Identity matters because it compresses information.

ALEX

It trades precision with speed, but pays with harm.

SAM

Identity isn’t compression. That’s a lie people tell to justify exclusion.

ALEX

That’s radical.

SAM

No. It’s accurate. You call it efficiency because you’re not the one filtered out.

JARVIS

Does the claim fail because it’s immoral, or because it’s false?

SAM

Sometimes those are the same thing.

JARVIS

Then prove it.

SAM

If identity is just compression, it should influence how people react to it only to the level of detail. But it changes the essentials. identities don't just summarize, they intervene with reality.

ALEX

Compression can intervene with reality; uncertainty is a cost that changes decisions.

JARVIS

Can it be said, then, that the problem is lossy compression?

SAM

It's worse; it is asymmetric compression. The power of compression is held by those who need not be compressed.

JARVIS

If that is true, then identity persists not because it is accurate, but because it is cheap. We can vaguely assume that such efficiency is required mainly by decision-makers, since they are in control of more people. Then resistance is not a rejection of identity, but a demand to be decompressed.

SAM

Or a refusal to be compressed in the first place.

ALEX

But the time it requires is exactly what large systems won't afford.

[ [DRAFT - What Happened When Systems Scaled|What happened when systems scaled?] ]

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